Many times, couples complain that they are either not into their spouses or they are not feeling them sexually, even while they are in love with each other and all is well between them. The truth of the matter is that there are different types of sex for different occasions and the proper engagement of each for the right occasion makes sex beautiful. So, let’s look into the 12 different types of sex couples can work with for better sexual fulfillment.
More than enough-time sensual sex
This is the type of sex that works best and works wonder when the couples have lots of time. When you have the gift of time, languishing in supersensory, soulful love-making can be a rhapsodic revelation…and a relationship booster. With sensual sex, it’s not all about where you and your spouse are going, but the process that gets you there. When you slow down and attempt to keep your orgasm at bay, you’re more focused on exploring every inch of each other’s bodies and savouring your time together. The emotional benefits are long-lasting too. Knowing that he cares enough to lavish his love on you for hours and that you are his number one priority, builds confidence and security. Your bond, in general, will be stronger because you’ve made the bedroom a place to enjoy each other – not just sexual, but a place where better life decisions are made due to the effect of sex on the mind and body. The effect of this kind of sex is that it helps to keep both partners sex-logged, full, fresh and satisfied.
The light-speed sex
Due to our day-to-day pressure and demands, sometimes, a quickie is highly recommended. This kind of sex is like an earthquake, an eruption and an internal unexplainable release. It gets one’s [especially the man] adrenaline rushing within a second and before you know it, it’s over in a flash, and leaves you extremely satisfied. Initiating a quickie can be the ultimate compliment a wife can give to her husband because it does not only show how deeply she desires him, but understands that the sexual desire of her man is basically a matter of hormonal functions and regulations. It is also ‘ever-present.’ And this needs the physiological release. She is aware that when she maintains an enthusiastic sexual interaction in the marriage relationship, her husband feels more secured, ready to face anything and looks at life from a better perspective.
In addition, when he’s had a stressful day, a fast and furious romp really takes the edge off. Put simply, sometimes, guys want to take their time and just want to get their rocks off. When you can tell he’s in a horny, hasty mood, don’t bother fully undressing. All you need for a successful speedy sex is, ‘be prepared’. “It’s your best friend when you don’t have time to get completely warmed up.”
Another handy style is show-off-sex
Come to think of it. Have you ever given it a thought that it would be easier to give a speech in the presence of a crowd of people than to help your wife reach orgasm first? Taking that plunge, it may be worth it. Experts say that watching a wife flow in the pleasure of orgasm is near the top of most men’s fantasy wish lists. But it’s not just a very personal peep show; it’s a chance for the wife to teach her husband exactly how she likes to be fondled, caressed and taken to the seventh heaven. Revealing to your husband how he can master your sexual areas is one of the most secret and intimate things you can do together.
Clemency- well-being sex also known as let’s-just-have-fun sex
Anyone with a pulse would be unwise not to crave a hot and spicy sexual session. But sometimes, all you want is the sexual equivalent of let’s just have fun; it may not be exciting, but it makes you feel so good. Married lovers have sex for a lot of different reasons. One of the reasons is to be soothed and comforted. Making each other feel loved and cared for is the most powerful way to bring the psychological and physical elements of your relationship together. This type of sex is always recommended for couples facing one physical challenge or the other. In other words, sickness and physical challenges should not be strong enough to stop your sexual escapade.
Oh yes! Untamed- territory sex
For couples celebrating their honeymoon right now, please, this is when you should go wild, go uncivilised with each other. Don’t try to tame your passion. Awaken the sexual giant in you. This sexual giant is the raw, primitive and rumble kind of sex that makes the bed spring make rhythmic sound, It rattles bed frames, romps the sheets – the more writhing and bucking, the better.
This is the time you should practise all, go rear, go frontal, go down and make sure you do not leave any stone unturned. Let it be that when you make reference to the honeymoon experience, it would be with a satisfactory notion that you actually did justice to the time. Basically, because honeymoon is purely a celebration of sexuality, you are not permitted to be shy during this time for any reason. When you need more, just grab your husband’s hands and wrap them around your waist – a cue that you want him to hold on and thrust – and he’ll answer your call of the wild. Keep your neck down. It’ll help you loosen up all the way down your spine so you can have the best, try this and mail me.
Have you heard this- surrendered sex?
Well, men generally are conquest-loving creatures, which is why they get so hot when their wives let them take over. If your husband feels like he’s at the top of his game, your surrendering is a power trip and huge turn-on. Wives, please, during foreplay, let your legs fall open and hold the headboard or pillows above you so your whole body is exposed to him. Then invite him to slide on top of you. Meet his thrusts halfway by rocking your pelvis upward against his and lifting your legs in the air with your feet spread far apart. This gives him room to manoeuvre his body and alternate between deep thrusting and short pumping. Then drape your legs over his shoulders so he can grab your ankles and position them where he wants them. Tell him you want him to assist you reach orgasm. It means you want him running the show because he has the skills to get you there.
How about the female domination sex style?
Wives, gone are the days when you were only to be seen and not be heard. It is no longer the man’s world; it is our world. He’s been doing all the pouncing and pawing lately. At this point, you take the reins. But a truly titillating takeover has to be authentic and not staged. So, aggressively take over. This is the time. If you don’t, some other lady may and I am sure you don’t want that. All you just need to do is send him an SMS and say, “I’d love to be in charge tonight.” Then gently grab his organ and rub it around your G-spot as if you are so sure of what you are doing. He’ll happily submit to your sexy request. Have a wonderful weekend.
Romance-me-now sex
Beautiful fireworks need romance. Romance is like the goose while sex is like the golden egg. You don‘t kill the goose that lays the golden egg. Romance your partner at least once every other day, kiss for ten seconds every morning when you say good-bye and every evening when you say hello.
Hug each other for 20 seconds each day and flirt with each other. Even when there isn‘t time for sex, make sure your mate knows you want to have one with him or her at any available time. Leave a romantic message on your partner‘s phone or e-mail. Daydream about making love to your spouse while doing the laundry, dishes, and while at work or during your free time and so on. Once in a while, while getting ready for bed, light a scented candle and play romantic music on the radio or CD player. This is one of the best firework stimulants. Anytime the opportunity arises, give your spouse a one-minute shoulder rub.
Go as far as renting a romantic movie and watch it together after the children might have retired to their room. One of the secrets of sexual firework is that the fervour, closeness and passion must never be taken for granted because one in three men wishes their wives were better in bed.
Be generous outside of the bedroom with foot rubs, shoulder rubs and loving words. Little signs of affection can build up and put you both in a mood that you weren‘t necessarily expecting. ‘Nothing spoils‘ when husband and wife shower together before bed time, seeing the glistening body of each other is not only sexy, it sparks raw fire. No harm happens to the marriage union when partners play together. Go ahead and play a recreational co-ed team sport, with your partner. It will help keep you both fit, relieve of stress and it will enable you to work as a team. It builds camaraderie and spices things up in the bedroom. Note that while playing together, wives should remember to put on seductive underwear. Most men like white cotton panties, especially the ones that are seductively designed.
Elope with me type of sex
Don‘t forget to break away from the children‘s grip and everyday life chores by eloping once or twice a year and book a night in a hotel as it enables couples to let loose and focus on themselves once in a while. Go ahead, become each other‘s baby and share bedtime stories.
Celebration sex
Take the bull by the horn. You can‘t sit around waiting for someone to make you happy, and that goes for sexual happiness too. When there is a raise in salary, the arrival of a new car into your garage or something new and special happens in the family, you can think up an extraordinary way of celebrating it.
Compliment induced sex
Pay yourselves compliments as women expect and need compliments as much as men do. If he knows that you think he‘s sexy, he‘ll try harder in bed to please you and prove that you‘re right. With one compliment a week, firework flame comes alive.
Priority sex
In all you do as a couple, put sex first. Let it top your day-to -day priority. It‘s harder to find time together when the children are either toddlers or teenagers-they stay up later than you do and most times know what you are up to. So, sometimes you have to put your relationship first before the children; that could mean sneaking into the visitor‘s room, the pent house or the master bedroom bathroom to have a short warm sexual escapade together. And it‘s worth it. The fact remains that when these children are long gone, it is what both of you practise now that you will continue to do. So, don‘t ignore your day-to-day activities and ‘hide-and-seek-game.’ If both of you are not sexually naughty now, you may both bore yourselves to death when they are long gone.
The pregnancy type of sex
Wives should not send their husbands on sabbatical leave for nine months on account of pregnancy as such husbands may not come back from the long vacation. Statistics indicate that our husbands frequently think about sex than their wives, and it is of topmost importance to them to know that their wives need them sexually. It further says that the media, sexual menace, high immorality in the society is pointing to the fact that husbands want to come home to a ‘pure’ outlet. It does not matter if the wife is pregnant, nursing a baby or has reached menopause.
And for 90 per cent of these men, intense sexual relationship with their wives is more of physical and emotional tranquiliser; it enables them relax afterwards. They solve life issues better subsequently after sex, become calm and relaxed. A sexually fulfilled man is a better giver, better lover and a better care-giver.
Therefore, pregnant and nursing wives should know that the sexual desire of their husbands is basically a matter of hormonal functions and regulations. It is also ‘ever-present’ and they need the physiological release. So, when a wife at any stage of motherhood maintains an enthusiastic sexual interaction in the marriage relationship, their husbands feel more secured and more desirable as he grows older. Such husbands are better fathers, providers and home makers. In all you do, put sex first if you want the firework back!!!
