Good Morning fellow readers.
How has the new year been so far and hope you all are doing well!
There is a reader on Naijaloaded that is confused and really needs your advice on what to do.
He wrote:-
Can I get a candid advice if it is wrong having a second wife?
I am married but somehow there is this other woman in my life that I love but can’t just let go despite my efforts to keep her out of my life.
My heart always yearns for her despite the fact that I know such could hurt my wife and I won’t be happy either if my wife has an affair too but I just can’t move on without her in my life.
It’s not a matter of being sleeping around but it’s just that I love her and want to have her as a wife and I no doubt love my wife and the mother of my kids too.
I will provide details on how we got into a relationship in due course.
But at a time my wife and I were separated for about 4 years which was the time I started dating this my girlfriend but please is it wrong, unusual or abnormal to love two women at the same time and have two wives?
I am just confused and indecisive.
Please, advice, especially from married men here and counsellors.
Thank you.
